Since the spring is here giving us sinus infections and summer is approaching, new relationships are budding. Today I decided to ask men and women what they wish their partner knew during sex. I was curious! And the answers were good. Let’s get into it. Ladies first!
Question: What is one thing you wish men knew about pleasing women during sex?
“Focus on the breasts.”
“If they (men) don’t like eating it (the love cave), don’t pretend.”
“Pleasing her is first priority”
“No plucking at the lady parts.”
“Kiss the body, touch, and lick.”
“Wet it before you stick it.”
“It’s not a race. Slow down”
“It shouldn’t be all about climaxing… we are sharing energies.”
“He can’t be selfish.”
(Most of the ladies answered “foreplay” and “slowing down.” Foreplay was stated mostly because women feel they aren’t fully ready for penetration because men aren’t spending enough time paying attention to their bodies. Secondly, slowing down is huge because men typically reach orgasm before women do. When you think your partner is in it for only his pleasure you don’t have a great and fulfilling sex life you’re entitled to
To the MEN: Show her you care about more than getting YOUR climax! Check this video out! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JmNPDhcHPcg). Yes, I took the fact that you guys are visual creatures into consideration. You’re welcome. :)
To my surprise, the men had a lot MORE to say of the SAME thing. Take a look at their answers…
Question: What’s one thing you wish women knew about pleasing men during sex?
“The sex varies on the relationship you have with that person.”
“Pay attention to detail.”
“Don’t make me help you give me head.”
“Be active and don’t just lay there.”
“Food after sex.”
“Giving head. Not all women know how to do it!”
“Make the man feel dominate.”
“Be the best”
“Be open to something new.”
“No biting or scratching, men don’t like pain.”
“Oral sex ain’t meant to be cute”
“Don’t ask how the sex was.”
(The men are more concerned about how their women pleasure them orally
and their women taking the wheel sometimes. Believe it or not, a lot of men find it sexy when women have the confidence to perform “cowgirl” or any other power woman position.
To the LADIES: If you need some tips on how to give your man some good oral sex he’ll be dreaming out check this site out! http://www.askmen.com/dating/vanessa/30b_love_secrets.html)
At the end of the day, don’t let this blog post influence you into thinking this is what EVERY woman and man thinks their partner should know. Everyone is different in their own way and it is up to you to find out what your partner wants and try your best to deliver it.
Love smart! :) -Frantrele